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Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks

Memorial Days

A Memoir

by Geraldine Brooks

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  • Feb 2025, 224 pages
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A heartrending and beautiful memoir of sudden loss and a journey towards peace, from the bestselling, Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Horse.

Many cultural and religious traditions expect those who are grieving to step away from the world. In contemporary life, we are more often met with red tape and to-do lists. This is exactly what happened to Geraldine Brooks when her partner of more than three decades, Tony Horwitz – just sixty years old and, to her knowledge, vigorous and healthy – collapsed and died on a Washington, D. C. sidewalk.

After spending their early years together in conflict zones as foreign correspondents, Geraldine and Tony settled down to raise two boys on Martha's Vineyard. The life they built was one of meaningful work, good humor, and tenderness, as they spent their days writing and their evenings cooking family dinners or watching the sun set with friends at the beach. But all of this ended abruptly when, on Memorial Day 2019, Geraldine received the phone call we all dread. The demands were immediate and many. Without space to grieve, the sudden loss became a yawning gulf.

Three years later, she booked a flight to a remote island off the coast of Australia with the intention of finally giving herself the time to mourn. In a shack on a pristine, rugged coast she often went days without seeing another person. There, she pondered the various ways in which cultures grieve and what rituals of her own might help to rebuild a life around the void of Tony's death.

A spare and profoundly moving memoir that joins the classics of the genre, Memorial Days is a portrait of a larger-than-life man and a timeless love between souls that exquisitely captures the joy, agony, and mystery of life.

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What are you reading this week? (7/10/2025)
On advice from a book club member, I'm reading Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks. The author speaks to the shocking numbness that the sudden death of a loved one can bring. The grieving delayed as life and its customary demands pu...
-Connie_K


If you could suggest one book for The Busybody Book Club to read, what would it be and why?
Raising Hare by Chloe Dalton. This book made such an impression on me this year. So did Geraldine Brooks' Memorial Days . Both are nonfiction, beautifully written and moving stories. I think each member of that bookclub would relate in some way to these books. For a lighter, but no less poignant ...
-Barbara_E


What are you reading this week? (5/1/2025)
A Walk in the Park by Kevin Fedora Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks The Tell by Amy Griffin A Quiet Company of Dangerous Men by Shannon Monaghan
-Shirley_T

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"Brooks's spare yet forceful prose and admirable determination to stare pain in the face go a long way toward achieving that goal. Readers reckoning with the loss of a loved one will find wisdom in these pages." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Brooks, with arresting precision, sensitivity, and candor, takes deep soundings of her grief and evolving perceptions and feelings in a generous and resonant remembrance. ... Brooks' many fans will want to learn more about her, while ardent memoir readers and those looking for books about grief will also reach for Memorial Days." —Booklist (starred review)

"Brooks pays homage to the loving, gregarious Horwitz, lashes out at America's flawed medical system, and deftly conveys the ongoing reverberations of her shattering experience. Like other widowed writers (Joan Didion, Joyce Carol Oates), Brooks both relives the trauma of her husband's death and keeps his cherished memory alive. A graceful and moving meditation on bereavement." —Kirkus Reviews

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Beautifully told, full of love.
Memorial Days is a memoir by award-winning, best-selling Australian author, Geraldine Brooks. When, in late May 2019, Geraldine learned of the sudden death of her husband of thirty-five years, Tony Horwitz, she didn’t get the chance to grieve. Four years on, in 2023, she travelled to Flinders Island where, in a remote little shack, she allowed herself to do so.

That first notification call to their Massachusetts home by the ER doctor at George Washington Hospital in DC was utterly devoid of any empathy, and a later call to the same ER offered a jaw-dropping lack of sensitivity. Geraldine experienced a roller-coaster of care: the DC policeman who spoke to her was considerate and gentle, as was the first person to find Tony, collapsed in the street, and neighbours in West Tisbury who would care for her horse and dogs.

In that immediate aftermath, there was so much pressure on legal and financial fronts, and on acknowledging a tsunami of condolences, she couldn’t permit herself the time and space to deeply grieve. Instead “I’ve moved around in public acting out a series of convincing scenes, one endless, exhausting performance.” That is what she went to Flinders Island to allow herself to do.

“I have only a loose notion of how I will spend my time here. I will walk and reflect, taking whatever solace nature cares to offer me. I will write down everything I can recall about Tony’s death and its aftermath. I will allow myself time and space to think about our marriage and to experience the emotions I’ve suppressed.”

Geraldine explores how the different cultures deal with death, noting how most faith traditions “put guardrails around the bereaved, rules for what to do in those days of massive confusion when the world has collapsed.”

She had a book to finish, but it wasn’t something that could happen with “the beast of grief clinging to me, claws as intractable as fish hooks”

Towards the end of the book, she begs for reform of the US medical-forensic establishment’s inhumane practices, which prevented her gaining comfort from being with Tony, and forced her to ID from a photo. And she implores the reader to write a guide to their household, to help those left behind after a sudden death.

Much of what Brooks writes about the immediate aftermath of her husband’s death can’t fail to have the reader choking up, tears welling, and it’s difficult to imagine that she wasn’t writing this with tears streaming down her face. Her grief will resonate with many readers, and her experience will shock and move. Beautifully told, full of love.

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Geraldine Brooks Author Biography

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Australian-born Geraldine Brooks is an author and journalist who grew up in the Western suburbs of Sydney, attending Bethlehem College Ashfield and the University of Sydney. She worked as a reporter for The Sydney Morning Herald for three years as a feature writer with a special interest in environmental issues.

In 1982 she won the Greg Shackleton Australian News Correspondents scholarship to the journalism master's program at Columbia University in New York City. Later she worked for The Wall Street Journal, where she covered crises in the Middle East, Africa, and the Balkans. In 1990, with her husband Tony Horwitz, she won the Overseas Press Club Award for best coverage of the Gulf War. The following year they received a citation for excellence for their series, "War and Peace." In ...

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